I agree. What has it got to do with them (tutors) anyway? Is seeing a T part of your curriculum or some sort of 'condition' or something?

Even if it were, I am surprised they'd be allowed to butt in like this. And how on earth would they even know anything about you being too attached or not?? Who is 'leaking' this info to these intrusive tutors?

Sounds like a breach of privacy and/or confidentiality. This is really weird...