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Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet
She should offer to take one for the team just for the sake of the relationship. I am sure even asexuals who are in an intimate relationship do this.
Also, may I ask what YOU do, Webgoji? You seem very intelligent and maybe you could release some frustration by being more than just a househusband, which is all that you have mentioned so far in this post.
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Well let's see here I'll grab the lotion and give her a nice foot rub, switch the TV to a slow music station and have her dance with me in the living room, set up having the kids be gone and make a special dinner for her with a romantic movie (the beef loin with blue cheese sauce was epic), PILLOW FIGHT!, playful wrestling, compliments 4-5-10 times a day about how great she's doing at her new managerial job or her outfit.
Frankly I'm out of ideas on my end. I'm not really the most romantic guy on the planet (and sure as hell not sexy, that's for darn sure) so I don't know what else to do.
As far as self-care goes, after all that and working 50 hours a week and househusband duties, I don't get a day off for me. I wouldn't mind a day with beer, football and movies about giant monsters fighting giant robots or something like that. But we get what we can you know?