I'm sorry this happened. He does sound like a jerk to me since it wasn't that difficult of a situation to handle. Still everyone reacts differently to things that are unexpected and he just might not be good at thinking on his feet in awkward situations. Do you think you'll feel comfortable enough to have a meaningful session (if you get an appointment)? I know you want to but i just hope he doesn't cause any more hurt given how strong your feelings are for him.