Eh...in theory that's true but in practice not so much unfortunately. For example, most of the guys I'm really interested in on dating sites are stylistically more "artsy" than I am (I've never, ever fit into one category or clique, even in high school). I've been told I'm too mainstream, too "basic," etc. But then I've been told I'm too much of a hipster for other people, lol. I'm so not a hipster, not that it matters, but I'm not. This guy is--I get the feeling he's of the camp who finds me a little too basic. Which, if that's the case, eff him. We're 35 not 25.