That's s good point Hankster. From what my tutors have said they have had reasonably good attachments. How can they possibly understand. She asked me if I loved my t. Of course I do but not in the erotic transference way. I need a healthy attachment so that I can grow from it.
I wonder about their knowledge and ability to support me around these issues. They said they could be there if I wanted a shoulder to cry on . I don't want them only my t. I feel like they don't even know anything about attachments. They keep stopping me talking and asking me to feel. I can't feel anything only heartbreak. This will hurt me more than the original hurt because I am being forced into changing t