Hi, I am kind of lost right now. I do not want to identify too much about myself yet, but I need help. I am in a relationship with someone who is bipolar and we are struggling. More than I can explain. I don't want to give too much info because I am not sure if they use this site or not. (I know they do use some online support sites). I am afraid if they know I'm on this site (and they are too) they will accuse me of interfering with their circles or become angry with me. I'm losing the person I love more than life itself and I can't stop it from happening. I'm sure many people here know and understand the anger that bipolar brings whether it's wanted or even understood why. The effects of that anger have been devastating and I don't know what else to do but ask for help. I don't see any forums for loved ones trying to help someone with bipolar and I don't know where to turn. I'm hurting, both from her anger and from feeling her push me away. I need to find someone to talk to. Please, if anyone has suggestions where i can find help, i need it desperately. I'm falling apart and have no where to turn. suggestions please?