you can never read "tone" in an email or post but a lot of what you write tends to piss me off and its not because you are not agreeeing with me - many people here are not - it just seems that you intentionally try to be insulting in this and your previous post. maybe its some sort of misdirected "tough love" approach or your idea of honesty. I don't know. maybe you're just a negative person.

So one should not express their feelings? Really? We should just suppress our emotions? That's what I've been doing for many many years and seems to be the wrong thing to do - or so others who's job it is to know are telling me. Should one "always" express their emotions - probably not but that's not what I said, now is it?