I think a regular life is possible but it doesn't have to be happening NOW, you know? For me personally, I am taking some time for recovery and applying for SSDI & SSI benefits. My goal is to attain and maintain stability so that I can go back to school and hopefully one day work at least part time. I'm getting married next year as well and having a family is important to me. We can do anything that normal people can do we just have some extra stuff to deal with.