Hello and Welcome to Psych Central SlothLove!!!! It's so nice to meet you. Here is a link you may want to check out that will help you better understand your friends personality disorder. Just left click on the link in blue and it should take you right to the forum -> Borderline Personality Disorder - Forums at Psych Central Please feel free to contact any community liaison or moderator if you need help navigating the forums. Continue checking your post here as I'm sure others will want to offer you advice and support. Best wishes!!!