I have a friend that I feel that she comes off as very selfish or only thinks about herself and can't admit to any wrongdoings. For example, when someone postponed plans with her, she gets very pissed off and assumes they are doing it to be rude, even if they have a valid reason for postponing. For example, a couple nights ago, one of Her friends had to postpone planes because her friend's friend lost a family member so her friend went to give support at the funeral home. Totally valid reason. She got very pissed and said she thinks it is rude that she did that and hates being ditched. I can understand if she was stood up for no reason and she got mad, but her friend had a valid reason for postponing and they still were able to hang out, just a couple hours later than planned and it was a sleep over so they had the whole day to themselves so she really did not need to get pissed. Meanwhile, the friend I deal with does it to me a lot. She will constantly stand me up when she is with someone else and say she just lost track of time but doubt that is true since she is always on her phone. We usually still hang out but much later. I just find it annoying that she gets pissed if someone does it to her, yet she does it to me. Also, if I ask her to stop doing something that makes me feel like crap, she gets mad at me and says that I am worrying too much and need to stop. Meanwhile she worries way more than me. Like, I asked her to stop constantly texting people while I am trying yo talk to her but then when she is with others, she ignores me. She got mad when I asked her politely to be more fair and equal. I am starting to think that she really does not like me as a close friend, if a friend at all and does not really respect me and I feel like she is very selfish and only thinks of herself since she gets extremely pissed and upset if she doesn't get her way. It is energy draining and exhausting.