I don't know why my brother hates me. He has hated me for years. I know why I hate him, because of his bullying. But what have I done to him that got him started bullying me. Even now we're adults, he still doesn't like me. He acts kind or polite to everyone, but me. And I have tried to have a ''brother-sister-relationship''. But he Always says no. I'm not trying anymore. I'm still haunted be some of the things he has said or done to me. I'm talkng about it in therapy and my T wants do do EMDR for it. I hope it helps me, because it rally causes problems for me. My brother's bullying has contributed to me anxiety, depression and low-self esteem.