I had success as a young woman, getting a degree, having a career and marriage. But it all fell apart when i was 29 and got divorced and couldn't work anymore. I was poor for a few years and it was hell. Then i managed to get private disability benefits out of my former employer and things improved. Over the next fifteen years i bought a condo and got a dog and things are quite nice now at 48. Ups and downs. Hang in there!