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Originally Posted by Perna
Why only if they delete those old/history posts. You are not NOW the person you were then. Just stop with the giving of power, if that's what you feel it to be. It will become old and useless the more time goes by that you do not post like that, whether they delete or do not.
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That's true. I guess I only thought that because even when I behave better, I'll slip up. I'm not perfect so I WILL have an outburst at some point. It will take some time for the outbursts to stop for good. That's why I feet like, despite my improvements, they still have power over me. If I slip up, they can use the messages as a weapon against me. They even said they won't embarrass me in front of others UNLESS I'm "showing out", which I will. That's why its best to just cut this person out for good. It's the only way I can disarm them.