Dear T, I'm nervous about seeing you tomorrow for the first time since confessing I have feelings for you (OK, that I'm attracted to you "emotionally and physically"). Especially since it will be with my husband. Please help make me feel secure, without also letting on to my husband what I told you.

Also, please help my husband agree that it's fine if I have an individual session with you, and maybe come up with some reason why I want it so he doesn't ask me too many questions...