The woman has never had anything come out of her I would consider to be an insight and when she talks, all she does is confirm how she either does not listen or she has so little understanding of me that she might as well not be listening. It is a big reason I tell her not to talk. If she does not talk, I don't get upset at how very little she gets about me. One time, I said something about a topic I mentioned a lot at the beginning but then stopped because she was so useless about it, and the woman said she thought I had gotten past it. When I asked why, she said because I had stopprd talking about it. I asked her why she did not check with me before making such assumptions and she had no answer. I then said I kept a list of thing that she is useless over and if I stop talking about something, it is usually because I have realized she is not useful and move on to find an area where she is perhaps not completely crap. I do try and boost her up by telling her good she is at staying back and not caring. Toss her a bone of good job every so often over that part.
The second one I see is better at understanding what I am saying. Her attempts at insight are no more useful, but at least I think she tries to understand me.