I am all for getting therapy for myself, but the only thing i "know" to try to fix is my growing self esteem problems. I feel my self esteem bottoming out and don't like myself much anymore. I can talk about that. But the things she feels are wrong with me i can't explain because i don't understand why she feels that way. She sees them. I really need her to be able to explain it so the therapist can try to understand what she is seeing and help me find out how to do better for her. But thank you, that is a very possible solution and i will continue to try to set that up.

I do understand this will pass, but the frequency had increased to where we go through this every other day. She's talking about leaving and not seeming as loving or sure of us during the short times things are good. I'm afraid one of these times it will pass and she will be gone.

we are trying to get into family therapy, or at least that was what we were doing before our current fight. I'm praying she is still wanting to go.

she is currently in therapy. I don't know how is going and struggling to ask for fear of angering her.

she has called her doctor and is trying new meds. I'm praying we find some that can help us return to where we used to be.

Thank you so much for the suggestions