Inny, you need to get out of there. You're not head of household-head of household should be worried about it. Just that they aren't worried about it tells me that family is really messed up. Those people live like pigs. GET OUT!!!! Nobody is going to let a 19 year old change the rules of a house that's not even "your home". You're an outsider as far as they're concerned. They don't care about you. You go moving in there with your bf-paying rent and cleaning is the LEAST you could do-as far as THEY see it. YOU OWE THEM-'cause you're living in their house and taking up their space. So, either get use to that idea- that it sounds to me they have very firmly planted in their heads- and quit complaining and crying about it or move the hell out of there. Those are your two choices. You're not going to change the household, okay?
(((((((((((INNY))))))))))))))