Thanks guys.

I just feel like I could be invading her privacy a bit, she didn't say anything either way about keeping in touch during termination process but she told me the name of the place she was going to next & so from there it would be me looking up the address online myself & writing to her.... the one that my second therapist let me do was with the understanding that she cannot write back & I'm good with that, being heard & her having something helps tremendously...

However, I know enough about her to know that she probably would be okay with it if I explain myself effectively the way I need to.... I just hesitate because the address to write to her was not given to me the previous time, it was sent via my second T, so that's why I feel like I'm intruding,because I feel like technically I don't have permission, but she was okay with the first one so maybe I'm worrying for nothing....

As for email, it won't be on there as I have no way of getting her email, I'm talking like a handwritten letter sent in the mail to her workplace (which is what my second T did for me).... but then again, why would she tell me where she was going if she had a problem with me possibly contacting her??? I think if she saw me as a threat of some kind she would've kept that info to herself??? So I guess that's a good sign!

It's just the me looking up her info without her or anyone at the place we were at telling me yes I could that makes me nervous, but I will preface it with something & hope she understands. My second T worked with her everyday at that place until she left so they know each other well but this time I'll have no way to hear back about what she thought, the first time she relayed through my second T how impressed she was with the writing I did. She really enjoyed it.... am I driving myself mad for nothing??? I've been thinking about doing this for months but can't bring myself to, but I should because I really want to talk to her again she's my first T & really the only one out of the 3 I really felt a genuine connection to...

Thanks for the encouraging words & similar experiences shared!