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Old Mar 09, 2015, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
Imdon't see it as their right to change things unilaterally. I don't need anything from a therapist. I have a way in which the woman is useful, but my life goes on without her. I object to their arrogance when they pull these sorts of tricks.
This is where I disagree. It's absolutely their right to change things. It's our right not to continue with them if we don't like the change.

Certainly there are varying degrees of effectiveness with regards to introducing change, but there are always two people in any type of relationship and it is what it is to some extent.
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