hi horsesanddaisies
that certainly isnt a future to look forward to. maybe having your fiance sit down with him when he is in a good mood and using i statements discuss how the verbal abuse impacts the family, having the whole family sit down and do an intervention would be ideal, but respectfully asking him to be more respectful of others. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome