When I was hospitalized, it was for suicide attempts. The doctor told me to just come if I even thought about it. One lady said she went to the hospital because she was on a verge of a nervous breakdown. With my job, I just told them I was in the hospital and they understood. I work part-time at a little grocery store, so I didn't play a big role. With the kids, I don't have any, but tell them your sick and will be in the hospital for a little bit. I hope you seek the help you need.