You're misunderstanding, Simmering.. I am not divulging other people's secrets to anybody. I just mean that when I'm anxious and depressed, I become vulnerable and when people are acting nice to me (even if years ago I gave up on them but now they're back in my life), I might tell them more about my feelings than I should.

For example, there's a person of whom I spoke to not long ago, and I told her that, if there's a God, I'm mad at him for creating nature to often be cruel. She immediately started laughing and said, "Mad at God? That's your OCD talking!" Like caring about and having compassion for animals is a symptom of mental illness.

And Simmering, if your T is doing that, you need to report him to NAMI and/or sue him.

Saw_q, I do talk to my cats, but I feel the need to talk to humans sometimes. Often seeking advice.

RedEagle, it's not generally that others are telling my secrets. It's that some people will use what I say to belittle me, judge me because I have a mental illness, or tell me I'm not capable of doing things because of it.