This is basically what I believe too. About 7 years ago I stumbled upon a book called "Matrix V Gold Edition". It talks about re-incarnation (although the book explains it more in depth; apparently on Earth we live in multiple time periods but get the experience all at once; very interesting)... How the spirit is not male or female, but androgynous;both at the same time. About "The HigerSelf" which is the real YOU but multi-dimensional in nature. Even about out of body travel and ways of finding out how to train yourself to do it. I have finally taken steps to do the out-of-body stuff which is supposed to affirm every thing the author talks about. I have been very successful at it.