and there's more cookie jars than one! and he's already opened the lid to another one and who knows what he got out of that one? and he called it an ego thing? what does he call you to the other cookie?

i was the married woman who was cheated on. a friend told me about the affair.

i think that calling her and telling her is just trying to transfer some of your guilt/pain onto her.......and you know what, their problems are theirs. not yours. not at all.

you were a sexual distraction for him. men and women frequently are not about to 'fess up to their part in the destruction of a relationship. it's so much easier to say "it's her fault" and then when push comes to shove, "i can't leave my dear little children"........

suck it up, move on and get some serious therapy.

p.s. what kind of respect do you have for a married man who exposes his two year olds (his very important children") to the woman he's sleeping with on the side? and to flaunt it around town? come on......