I also dislike massage because I feel that wastes my time. In the past, when people massaged me I felt painful. But once one of my male friends massaged me and I felt comfortable. When I told him I felt tired he said he could massage me, then I replied him massage is painful so I hate it. But he said he has learnt massage and he could make me comfortable. Then I granted to let him try and then I indeed feel comfortable. It turns out massage takes some skills to make the massaged person felt comfortable. But I still don't like to focus on using massage to relieve my fatigue because I dislike the feeling of wasting time when being massaged.