Your right a married man should never through his wife out of the house. When I left I figured it would be for a couple days not thinking it was going to get this bad. I was couch surfing for a month. I did go back to the house a week ago. Things are ok and yes just ok. I am getting closer to finishing and I have to continue to focus on school.
Last week her told me that the reason his heart is CRUSHED is because I didnt cook all the time, I asked to help do laundry (match the socks), and didnt pay attention to him.
For the past 6 years I have been in college. He would cook about 3-4 times a week and I would cook the other days if we didnt go out to eat. I have a city job that is part time and I also coach at the JC college. This is are busy season and it is my 2nd year.
WHY NOW IS HE DOING THIS? Why complain now he never has before??
My big question is WHY? HE tells me how much he loves me yet is treating me like crap. Who does that? I asked him if he wanted a divorce. His answer is no. Is he trying to control me or manipulate me??
He told me that he dont know If he could ever allow himself to open his heart up to me because I have shattered it to tiny pieces.
Or does he just not like me anymore??