I asked him why he let his situation get to this point and his reply is that he trusted that I'd help him. I literally
ed.
As time passes, I'm feeling less guilty. Last night was rather difficult in terms of lots of doubtful thinking that affected my sleep but I was able to make up for the lost sleep this morning.
Thank you for your concern and for taking time to reply to my rather trivial (compared to the situations that most members here have to face) matter.
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Originally Posted by JJBX
I think that's really good. I think it takes a lot of gall to ask someone for money and then blow up when they don't come through. I wouldn't feel guilty at all. Everyone has their own journey and if he wants to avoid homelessness, he needs to rely on more than the charity of friends (eg, being a leech). That might mean he needs to find some creative ways to make quick cash, but that's on HIM, not you. Hell, I know I've been in the position to figure out how to supplement my lousy income real fast.
Ending this one wasn't even your fault. It makes me wonder if that's all he cared about.
I'm sorry that you went through this. You seem like a very sensitive person and I hope that you find real friends who see you as more than a means to their own end.
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