Me personally~ I hate grocery shopping and if my husband was going through my stress bags complaining about his crappy life, I'd be offended. I don't have a crappy life and thankfully my husband feels the same. It would suck to go home to a crappy life.

Maybe you do have a crappy life~ maybe your wife does as well and prefers to stay in denial. Hopefully, you can find someone to validate your crappy life or help you see things differently. Whatever the case may be.