Thanks everyone for the support and feedback. My fiancé and I have both whole-heartedly agreed that when we have kids, he will be monitored around them and will not see them if he can't control himself.

Thanks nicoleflynn for the book recommendation too. I will definitely check that out.

I really appreciate all of this. I know things will be a lot better once we are out on our own. We are planning on buying a house this summer so just counting down the days.