Love your response Redsoft.

Your mother is a strong women. I am trying to save this marriage. I dont think the excuses Im getting is a good enough reason for all this. If it is its been six weeks. How much more am I suppose to take.

I reached out to his father and family. His father told me he was not involved. So I left it alone. I overheard his conversation with his father over the weekend. They plan on leaving tomorrow for 5 days. ( I had no idea) I just overheard the conversation.
He purchased a boat two weeks ago. I had no idea. I came in the house Saturday there was $800.00 of fishing items that was purchased. I made a comment that I was going to buy pjamas. He told me no because they were not a necessity. I am so confused and hurt by all this. This all came out of no where. I have only been back into the house one week. He speaks very little to me.
He said my problems were not cooking all the time, asking him to help fold the laundry, and the house wasn't always clean (it was). Maybe messy but never dirty. He said he was the PERFECT husband but I was not. I took advantage of him because he worked and I went to school and worked only part time. I have been working full time for a few month including working on my degree. My Master is something we discussed together. I planned on stopping when I received my BA but thought if I could get my Masters I could go further.
Does one throw 6 years down the drain for this?
I married to be with him forever not until he felt he can just throw me out or get mad at me. I have talked to him and he refuses to talk. Or he will say. I will let you work at the marriage because I have been the perfect spouse. If you fail its on you. He said he knows the right thing to do is to allow me to try to make it work (Either way I guess it wont be right in his book). Yet when its bed time he has his hands out ready for that and will say I love you. That's the only time he will say it now. He doesnt text me back at all. I feel like a failure in my marriage.
He is only disappointed in me. He says it has nothing to do with the degree.

And yes Redsoft. I would like your feed back please.Thank you.