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Originally Posted by marieburch
He did mention he is the king of the house now. He never said that before. My masters is 22 units and is full time. We did discuss it because he was paying for it. He isnt paying for it now. I has to make ends meet and pay it last month and I'll have to pay it this month.
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He's not the king unless you allow him to be the king.
Sorry if I misstated that your masters was part time. That is even more work on your plate then. I'm sorry you have to pay for it yourself now. Masters programs are not cheap!
Going from originally helping you pay for the program to taking that support away, it sounds even more like he is trying to sabotage you and your achievement. That's not to say he should or shouldn't be paying for it. But to me, that gesture would seem like a slap in the face.
And my point about discussing things is... he was okay with you studying for your masters back then, and now he is not. He was okay with the marriage back then, and now he is not. It sounds like he needs to communicate better rather than holding in his thoughts, waiting for it to get worse and then burst and blame it all on you. He can't constantly tell you that you are at fault and making mistakes without telling you what his expectations are.
I'm sorry for typing on a rage earlier, but I thought some of his expectations were too much to ask.
You are amazing. Really. I hope you are able to make your ends meet. (hugs)