my gut tells me, if I need to ask then thy are lies. That the person doesn't want to hurt me but is avoiding me because they are upset and done with whatever it is. When I confront them with proof of the lie then they become anger. I notice they become anger at me for me jus saying, I miss them and it makes me sad I can't see them more.

I get the feeling they want me in their life, but just in case they need me.