Dogzrule, thanks so much for the link, it looks really helpful.

I still do have one photo of me in which there are visible bruises from the abuse, I have a couple journal entries detailing a couple of the attacks, and I also have a voice recording on my old phone that I kept .. i secretly recorded one of our arguments and at the end you can hear me scream because he grabbed me and threw me against the wall. So maybe that will help..

And the more I think about reporting him, the more I want to do it. So now I'm just working up the courage to actually go to the police station. But no matter what the outcome is, I do think it will help me move on.