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Originally Posted by misskeena
Maybe, but it can happen. I'm well on the way. I'm 36 and was 31 the last time I was in a serious relationship (with a gigantic loser, by the way). I've spent the better part of my 30's not having sex (even though, dude, I'm not getting cuter  ) because while I have dated (not really recently), I don't sleep with people after only one or two dates. Especially if I'm not really that into them anyway.
I'm a smart, funny, charismatic, reasonably successful, reasonably attractive (though a bit overweight) woman and it baffles me how I couldn't pay a man I was a bit interested to give me the time of day, and yet some women get hit on in the canned goods aisle, and can choose to spend four years single.
My point is, I don't think you need to worry about being alone forever--you obviously attract men. So whatever you have that I don't, I commend you. I think you should instead focus on quality over quantity and go from there. |
Well I'm 37 and if there's hope for me then there's hope for you. 😉
I attract all the wrong men though. I've already chosen to be single for 3 1/2 years to find myself, which didn't work. I must have a really fantastic hiding place. Lol
I also don't have sex after a few dates, so I sort of never get rid of my ex's completely, that way if I end up single and needing sex I can get it from someone I know. Unless they have a gf, then I leave them alone. It's an awful thing to do, and I've only recently realised I do this!
Quality over quantity is a good idea, I probably don't need a harem. 😉
Maybe the men you're attracted to aren't actually right for you to begin with. You could be wanting them and meanwhile you're not noticing the guys that are interested in you.