I wish I could say there was an easy way round the breaks, but alas there isn't. Ive been with my T for almost 3years, twice wkly for 2of those yrs so the breaks really are a big thing for me as seeings someone as supportive as a T twice a week then to have go 7weeks each summer holiday and all the other breaks is hard.
Its in dealing with the pain this raises is where some of the healing comes from, and where we get to find out our own inner resources.
It takes time and practice, almost like a childs first steps, they fall then they get up again.
I guess thats why growing up is left to children, they have imaginations that destract them from the constant emotional tests that exist.
I can't sit down and play bricks to take my mind of missing T, but I'm learning to read a book, write about how I am feeling, reach out to others.
Its hard, but its worth it in the end.
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