Hi i am almost positive my gf has DID that im in a long distance relationship with.I have always been into psychology and want to become a psychologist. I have talked to multiple personalities some angry,some that seem jealous, and two i spoke too speak Japanese and one doesnt speak much english.Im trying my best to be there for them all but sometimes im not sure if im being tested by some of them.One took over and said that my gf was hers and that my gf is nothing and that im hers.She did let my gf hear my voice when she asked to before which i thanked her for.Another time a alter said said my gf was gone like her personality was dead which hurt and freaked me out but i found that wasnt true.Another i talked to said theres 98 alters not sure if its true or just testing me to see if i would leave but the personality seemed to like me.Yesterday i talked to another alter that said humanity should be destroyed and i tried my best and told her that i can see why you think that and cant imagine what must of happened to you. i Told her she can tell me anything that im there for them all. Also said that she is going to more than likely see me in person and she actually seemed to not mind me then she switched.Some alters were arguing i think over me and i told them im there for them all and that i at least have some time to talk to the one im in a relationship with which i think they let her talk to me whiched i thanked them.I also told them that they are all important to me and they can talk to me. I hope im doing alright with this i refuse to abandon them. My gf also cant go to therapy because of her parents are controlling which when i go to see her im gonna meet them. She also has had weird delusions. Please give me any advice as long as its not leaving her because i wont do that to her or any of the alters. I'm also wondering how can she stop the pains she gets which seem to happen after she switches like really bad head pain. Also i have a fear of something happening to the main host who I know the most and goes by her name her parents call her by.can any alters take over completely and I never get to talk to her again?or am I worrying too much?and what if a alter takes over and hates me and breaks up with me?then what If she comes back sometime later after everything? I don't think the girl I know the most is gonna go anywhere becuase she also has a kid she told me she only cares about her son and me. I'm just trying my best, also one of the alters told me about a alter that is a shifter and was saying that he's evil although I talked to him and told him I can't imagine what happened to you but I dont blame you for hating humanity after what must of happened to you.im trying my best to get to know them when they show up and show them they can tell me anything without me judging them that I'm there for all of them.