I am at a point where virginity is a disease. Period. If it wasn't, then why do 99.9% of women say they won't date a 25 year old virgin, let alone 40? I can't afford to spend six or nine months in a relationship only to be dumped when she found out about my virginity. I know it sounds like tunnel vision, but it would be a waste of my time & the final blow to my heart for that to happen.