I've had the same issues with my boyfriend for 3 years. Don't get me wrong, we do alot together but I always feel like I'm last on the list and he'd drop anything to go be with those guys. In fact, havnt seen him all day, granted I was at work but he our puppy is sick and he just text me to tell me he is going out again tonight to play pool after just getting back from a bar an hour away from our home. I'm soo frustrated.