Welcome, Christine. Stick around, and you'll be feeling more comfortable here soon.

I have never been officially diagnosed borderline, although I've been in therapy for years and I'm convinced that I am. The overall patterns of self-destructiveness and und unhealthy relationships (which I tend to destroy by asking for and then refusing or rejecting so much help) are the big things about what it is to be borderline. I also tend to dissociate a lot, and that is part of it too. But it isn't all bad. Most people who are borderline are also very intelligent and creative, and adaptable too. Don't forget to look at what your strengths are, because they are the key to getting through the rest.

When you're ready, tell us a little about yourself. What does it mean to you? Don't forget the part about your strengths!

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