Mc4life95ci you stated "she is going to more than likely see me in person" so I take it you have not actually met her face to face....heads up people on the internet are not always how and what they say they are. since you havent actually met this person face to face there's no real way of telling if this person really has DID or is pulling your leg /scamming you...

if this was me i would ntobe in this relationship, simply because of too many red flags...for example here you say she is not in therapy...ok question if shes not in therapy then how is she getting ECT (in another post you stated her parents are forcing her to get ECT) ECT stands for Electrical Convulsive Therapy. it is a mental health therapy technique where a person in therapy with a psychiatrist or therapist has the therapy option of entering a hospital setting, given a sedative and then shocked with electrical current by a psychiatrist. anesthesiologist and a nurse. a person and their parents do not just walk into a hospital and have it done. a psychiatrist prescribes it for their clients they have been treating with meds and therapy.

you also stated this person has delusions....who is to say what she is telling you isnt her delusions...delusons are thoughts that cant possibly be true. iits highly questionable for example its impossible to get ECT without being in therapy since ECT is a mental health therapy. there are other very questionable red flags I see in the posts that you stated she told you.

my suggestion would be to really think about what you want in a relationship and whether its possible this person could be scamming you or if this person is for real whether you are mentally and physically stable enough to handle all that comes with being in a relationship with someone that is giving you such obviously conflicting information.

if this was me I would not be in this relationship due to too many red flags that point me towards possible scam artist.