Welcome to Psych Central (PC) birdseed. Sorry to hear you are having chronic difficulties with your husband. The first thing I am concerned about is how you have been verbally battered in this relationship. A therapist or some kind of advocate that can help with reality checks. There are things that other couples have done like have separate finances, have ground rules for your relationship, like taking the meds every day.

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