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Originally Posted by Symbolic
Does anyone else get really anxious when talking on the phone? Any tips for overcoming the irrational fear?
Granted, I'm fine talking with friends & family, but when I need to call, or accept a call from, a complete stranger, I panic. It's weird, because I don't get distressed talking to strangers in person.
I've been known to agonize over making a simple phone call for days, even going so far as to script what I want to say, and wait until they aren't around so I can just leave a message. Every single time I finally do talk to a stranger on the phone, I'm fine within a few seconds, but the anticipation leading up to it is usually unbearable. Not sure why. It's silly, really.
It's weird. I can't explain what created the anxiety in the first place, or why I never seem to remember that talking on the phone isn't scary or bad.
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Omg I do the same thing. I thought I was freakin crazy! I can't help u on what to do about the problem but I can tell u that u r not alone. Wow. I hate/dread any phone call and those with family. But after I get to talking for a min I'm fine. So many important phone calls go unanswered. Especially if I don't know the number I have to let the voicemail pick it up. Same if someone come knocking on the door.