Hi HockingPastryChef

Yes, it is rather complex.

I mean you have communicated this to him on the past.

In my honest opinion; you shouldn't really have to be in a position where you have to be more "forward" with him.

You've communicated this already and he should have, in theory, listened the first time.

But then again I guess we all choose what we are going to listen to.

I think part of what you need to communicate with him is exactly this:

When you state something; you are giving quite a firm opinion; and you would appreciate it if your opinion is listened to; rather than brushed off or ignored or glanced over.

I think that what you want to tell him is good.

And asking him for his input as to how he sees this relationship too is also a good strategy.

Best wishes with communicating this one.

I think you've expressed it well here.

If he is wise, he will hear you.