Yes, but should that not been seen by yourself and/or the therapist?
I think that if we can not see them we can be enlightened by our T perhaps which at least brings it to the forefront.

I do understand that part of this is also being ready to hear of these things... but sometimes they need to be confronted in order to progress with therapy... at least I think so.

Thank you Ipse... Your points are valid... I am just meandering... If one is not ready... that sure makes it difficult.