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Originally Posted by ThisWayOut

Comfort feels good. There's nothing wrong with that.
Why do you say she doesn't understand what happened? Is it because you have not explained it? Or because she disagrees with your self-assessment?
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Both. I haven't told her some of the more difficult and embarrassing things that I have done, and on what I have told her we have differing opinions. She said something once about the difference between me doing things and having things done to me. The way I see it I was an active participant in my "csa", but she says that those things were done TO me and I did not have the ability to say no or escape from a terrible situation. This is bologna, I was there, I had a voice and all it took was one short sentence to stop it all.