Here's a thought I'll just plant as a seed for future thought. If you have hopes of being a mother some day, is this a man you would like to have as the father of your children? Does he express the values that you'ld like to have taught to your children? Will he be a good role model to a future son on how to be a man?

No need for you to answer me . . . . just ponder this in your own heart.

One has to wonder if you maybe married this man because you were at a point in your life where you wanted to be married, and he happened to be available. Is there any real love holding you two together?

Again . . . don't answer me, just ask yourself. You speak about him in such a detached way, as if he were your landlord.