Boy can I relate to this.My older sister is awful to me. Mean, controlling you name it. My dad is the only one I feel I got now. Mom passed in Jan. All her side and most of my dad's seem to disslike me for some reason. My sister has told them things that aren't true. Sometimes its just better to cut them out. I know it hurts but its better to be alone and content then be around people who put you down . Hope your hubby gets better