My normal is being happy in my skin. I don't even wanna become what is "normal" in my society lol. I just don't have that in me. So it's about being strong enough when my normal and their normal collides, being able to be percieved normal enough to be able get and hold a job (which was problem in the past, because I was scared I would not be accepted, so I made myself look blah... never really worked out).