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Originally Posted by TheFuZZieONE
PS. The fact that you think one of your alters is a gay man, but you came out as a lesbian, sounds like a piece of you still might be attracted to men, but you disassociated it for some reason. There might be some trauma in your life where a man hurt you or something? Unconsciously you decided you were done with men and repressed any feelings you have for them, thus creating a personality that express these feelings. At least that's a theory. I might be completely wrong.
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I feel like it's the other way around. I think he is a gay man because I so desperately wanted to be normal, and be able to relate to and get along with men and find them attractive. I've had a lot of internalized stuff, so at the time he came around, anything would have been better to me than being a lesbian. But that's just how I feel right now, and I haven't talked about this in therapy.