Thanks guys so so so so much....

Haven't contact him today and neither him me....have keep myself busy all day.

Patty your words of wisdom are priceless...YES I must remember the anxiety, and hard time he has put me through..and realise that he is not going to change for me and indeed why should he..????

So move on soilder on ....I must.

I still check my phone and I had thought to go down to him...but what will that acheive...?

I so want to just clear the slate...ie sell my house and move on.........really thinking of channelling my energies into that one.....and leave the memories behind.

Once again thanks

GodBless
SpringStar